Live and let live, work

sanibel island florida
Sanibel Island Florida…all time favorite beach vacations.
Problem or Opportunity?
Group Hug
Group Hug.
child at beach sunset
Classic reverse sunset.

Live and let live.

Kinda like freedom.

People will work differently than you.

People will work better than you.

People will work worse than you.

People will like how you work.

People will dislike how you work.

Through it all, remember this mantra…

Live and let live.

Insight: This is what you want others to do for you as well.

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Live and learn, work

three people at Sperry Glacier
We hiked to Sperry Glacier in 2025. From the airport 35 miles to Lake McDonald Lodge (LML). From LML, 22 miles roundtrip hike with 5,000′ elevation gain and loss. There is a travel hack though. We know it and it’s the only way this worked for us.

Live and learn.

Three keys to living, learning, and growing:

  1. Have fun
  2. .think .differently
  3. Lean into discomfort

Remove any one of those three and regret grows like a weed.

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Let’s make “SYDK” a category, work

rustic cabin and people playing cards
That remarkable time when Sperry Chalet, University of the Sunshine Coast (USC), a special card game called Dominion, and our Son happened simultaneously.

Funny how stress can make obvious, important things invisible.

My stress?

First, i need to re-label the topic.

Instead of stress, i’m using opportunity and challenge interchangeably.

My current and biggest opportunity is learning how to lean into the discomfort of life-stage changes. And to thrive in the change.

Looking on all five blogs what is obvious was invisible to me until 10 minutes ago.

All five blogs have “Quotes” as the most used category.

All five blogs have “Dear Son” as the second-most used category.

In hindsight, it’s a blinding flash of the obvious.

Note: What is also invisible is that “Quotes” and “Dear Son” are wonderfully codependent. Hadn’t recognized that until just now. Cool.

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Shit you didn’t know, work

father and son closeup
My five daily. differently-themed “Mid Life Celebration, LLC” Blogs started as a project for our Son
child with teddy bear at beach
Jack the Bear, Castaway Cay 2011.
Windermere Prep Cross Country
What a person learns through perseverance can pale in comparison to the person watching from the sidelines. Cross Country wasn’t my idea.
handwritten Personal values list
Our instructor, a seasoned attorney, carries a $100 bill and tells people when riding elevators he’ll give it to them if they can share their personal values before the door opens. Scribbled note: Honesty, behave admirably, personal responsibility, self-control, initiative.
child by a disney trash can
One of hundreds of Disney parks trips from home.
family and dog in mini van
2005 road trip to Sanibel…Jack the Bear on Chapin’s lap…
Thank you post card note
Wrote this and tucked it under Chapin’s blanket so he’d see it before falling asleep.
Family by Christmas tree
Chapin’s first Christmas as a college student. Life is a blur. Enjoy that. Having Chapin along for our life-ride has been icing on the cake. So insanely lucky.

Dear Son,

Shit you didn’t know…

How could you?

You were just a kid.

What you didn’t know is…

How being your dad inspired and guided everything i did (and why i did it)…

Told you High School freshman year you had to get involved in some after school activity. Never told you what it needed to be other than it was with a group of others that met daily after school.

You didn’t during first semester. And i didn’t make you.

But i insisted you do it second semester.

Further, i reminded you that you could pick anything you wanted.

And i also revealed that if you didn’t pick, i would pick for you.

And i would pick track and field.

Why?

Not because i wanted you to become a runner.

But because track and field offered many different choices.

You picked Shot Put.

Which i thought was a brilliant choice.

Coach Sharrod Williams talked you into cross-country to start your sophomore year.

Never saw that coming.

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Sell me on how, work

bead jar jeff noel
My home-office desk honors a “bead jar”. So much commitment, discipline, vision, and forethought.
Disney Keynote Speakers
The bead jar never travels. Jack the Bear has been around the world.
If Disney Ran Your Life Podcast in Kuwait
Wait, the bead jar traveled to Kuwait in 2019 for my TEDx Talk. The big trifecta: Jack, Stitch, and the Bead Jar. Kuwait Towers in background.
jeff noel disney speakers
This bead jar has been in front of me every day since August 2000.

If Disney ran your life…

How can you be qualified to lead an expedition if you cannot explain ‘true north” and why it’s the most important thing?

How can you start by focusing on ‘what to do’ and ‘how to do it’ when you don’t know “true north”?

Oh wait, people do it this way because that’s how most do it.

In my 25-year keynote speaking and business advising career, inside 2,000 different organizations to varying degrees of depth and breadth, i witnessed only 1/1000 (yes, thousandth) know why they exist.

Side note: Disney and Advent Health (formerly Florida Hospital) are the only two. That’s two out of 2,000.

True north is why you exist. It’s why your company exists.

When you know and are 100% committed to why you exist, your what and how will reveal themselves. Your what and your how will also reveal when it needs refreshed, revised, or replaced.

But your true north never changes.

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